Hi Folks
What I feel like writing about these days is about what all
of us are fascinated about.
I think the most important thing in life to do exactly what
you want to do and you are born for.
The true happiness is actually a feeling, it’s something that is not
given or gained. It’s just a feeling that automatically comes.
Is it fame that makes you happy? No. Money? No. The answer
is so simple that probably most of you wont agree with me but I know I am
right. Happiness comes naturally when you live your life and follow your heart.
When you follow your heart and your real wishes and not that wishes and desires
that society impose on us.
It seems like every guy in Mumbai wants to be an actor (a
hero) and every girl – an actress (a heroine). Hero and heroine… Reminds me
comics about supermen I read in childhood but that’s OK. And the most
interesting part is that guys think by training in gym every day and taking
banana protein shakes and gaining muscle: that’s enough to become a “hero” and
girls think that you just need to sleep with the right producer and he will
make you “heroine”. Simple isn’t it? Oh….if everything would be that easy than
99% of guys would be heroes and 99% of girls heroines. But oops…how many do we
know? Let me disappoint you…to become an actor takes absolutely different
things than training in gym, having muscles or having sex. Things in life are
not based on having muscles or sex. And apart of it real cinema doesn’t have 1 or 2 actors in a
movie and good films are based on a story and all actors are important in it.
It’s very narrow minded people have such old fashioned stereotypes and think
like that.
Another question is… do you think fame makes people happy?
Probably I will disappoint you as well because I have never met people who
would be happy because they are famous. Of cause they all think in the
beginning that fame is the meaning of life but you study psychology than you
can learn why exactly person wants to be famous. Usually those people who did
not get much love in childhood have such need and when they become famous they
still don’t really get that something deep inside they were looking for. Fame on its own don’t bring
happiness. Either I have never met
happy people just because they have money. And apart of it in India being
famous and being rich are not necessary go together.
But apart of it have I met really happy people? Yes I did
and what I realized that being happy doesn’t depend on money, fame or anything
like that. Happiness depends on the things you do, on life that you live. When
you just do what you truly love doing and doesn’t matter what it is. We all
come here for an experience and we don’t need to prove anything to anybody. We
should always ask our heart and our soul, that feeling deep inside, what we really
want to do, what we wanted when we were kids and what we do at our best and
pursue it. And when you just do what you really love you wont be bothered about
fame or success, because you will be just happy to do it every single day. And
if fame or success comes that’s great but its not the target. If you love to
cook you just love doing it and it doesn’t matter if people are going to like
it or not (the dish I mean).
That’s what happiness is.
And of cause love. But it’s a different subject all together.
I think most of people are not ready to accept that we do
come to this world for awhile and we will leave and than we are going to
reincarnate again and it’s the circle that will go on and on till the time we
gain all the experience we must gain.
We should never judge others and nobody can judge us as
well.
But the most interesting thing that I call hilarious is when
you meet some man in show business whose ego is much bigger than he is and than
he looks at you with attitude and tells you that he can make you a star.
Hm….That’s interesting. He probably has some secret phone number of God (or
lets say Universe) that he is going to use at night and asks for you;-) He must
have been a secret agent from “Matrix” or “X-men”?
I am happy because I do what my heart tells me to. I have
done mistakes, I have learned, I had tough time but with all that it was my
path and it was my journey and it all made me the person I am now. People don’t
change but priorities do, we do mistakes and we learn from it be causes we come
here for experience. I don’t know
what I will be doing tomorrow but I know that whatever I will be doing it will
be true and it will be real and it will be genuine. Always say the truth and be
true to yourself no matter what it’s going to cost you because at the end of
the day nobody is more powerful than Universe.
I am not writing this to be judged or criticized if it’s
true or not. I just share my thoughts and my experience. Some people might
think like me, some people not and some can learn. We are all different and
that’s the beauty of life.
Love to all
Saidah Jules
Could't agree less with you accept a few points here n there. Its warming to see you take time out and write about what you feel. Maybe it would make a difference in some ones life. keep it up. nice blog.
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